A Mat

It’s almost 4AM.   I am waiting for the dryer buzzer to signal that I can finally sleep.

Before this, I was fighting with a child’s sleeping mat.  One that had to be washed immediately because it doesn’t belong to either of my sons.

I’m washing it because it needs to be clean when my sons go to school tomorrow in a few hours.

I have the mat because my son threw up on it at preschool.  He’s not sick, but he vomited half his lunch on his friend’s blanket, pillow and mat instead of on his own mat (which he managed to keep clean).

How is that even possible?

So I rightfully had to wash the soiled mat.  I don’t mind that at all.  But I don’t like 3AM fights with a wet mat (now clean) that has it’s insides all twisted up.

The washing machine caused the foam inside to bunch up and each of the three pieces is A RECTANGLE.  And there’s no zipper so the mat could not be opened up to realign each of the separate foam pieces.

So I had to guess which way each foam piece needed to be straightened out.  I guessed wrong twice!  Ugh.

I would have cried except, it’s just a mat.  And finally a clean and dry one, which means I can sleep.

This is why everyday is Mother’s day.

A Short List of People I Follow On Twitter

Donna of Champuru.net (who tweets as @champuru) asked about the people I follow on Twitter.  She posted her list, so here’s mine.

@Havi (and Selma her famous duck)

I have been reading Havi’s blog (The Fluent Self) for about a year and a half since stumbling upon her Blogging Therapy series, which has sixteen parts to it.  You can see the list from this post.

Havi also explained how some of the best conversations and relationship can materialize when people are their authentic, smart, goofy selves on Twitter.  And if you have or do a thing that you want to share with other like-minded people, I highly recommend reading Havi’s posts about Right People.

If you’re new to Havi’s blog, you could start with the Glossary or the FAQ.  And if it is Wednesday, she may have summarized a bunch of Items! she thinks are cool, useful, funny or just plain interesting.

@JohnnyBTruant

Johnny is a small business consultant who is great at building Wordpress websites, and he recently revealed that his success comes from doing everything wrong.  His tweets are occasionally about zombies.

I have been following Johnny’s online biz adventure since this post in March 2009, when he started working with @Ittybiz (Naomi Dunford).  I took advantage of Johnny’s free blog setup and now he has all these people saying nice things about him.

And in case you were wondering, this is the post by @Havi which mentions Johnny B. Truant.  (He was an Item! way back in November 2008.)

@CharlieGilkey

Johnny and Charlie do jam sessions where they explore what it takes to grow your business.  If you’re new to Charlie’s blog, there are over one thousand posts, so start here or head on over and grab a free planner designed for creative people.

@victoriashmoria

Victoria wrote brilliantly about the No-Brainer Scenario.  She’s an awesome coach.  Read her about page.

@leah_art

Leah’s art makes me swoon, especially this recent piece: Blue Tree.  What I also love about Leah is her descriptions and thoughts about the pieces she creates.

If you’re on Twitter, who else would you recommend?  Leave a comment (and your Twitter @username) and I’ll follow you too.

Making the Gift

I’ve been horrible (with many exclamation points) when it comes to planning my sons’ gifts to their classmates for gift-giving holidays.  There is a voice in my head that screams THEY SHOULD MAKE THEIR OWN GIFTS, but realistically, how much cooperation can I get from two boys who would much rather wrestle each other until someone cries than sit next to me and draw or put stickers on twenty or so heart-shaped construction paper cards.  NOT HAPPENING THIS YEAR.

Here are some of the the things my children have either given or received:

Snacks including chips, candy and juice

Pens, pencils, erasers, notepads and coloring books

Stickers (always a favorite!) and tatoos

There isn’t anything wrong with the above things…I’m merely itching to try something different.  Bonus points if the gift has a joy factor to it.  And each gift definitely has to be under $5.00 $1.00.  (After all, these are gifts from preschoolers to other preschoolers.)

So, what can I create that will be a meaningful / useful / thoughtful gift?

Next month’s lesson plans will probably include a Valentine’s Day and Chinese New Year theme.

Any suggestions?

(I do have an idea that I’m toying with, which I’ll share in an upcoming post.)

BTW, this post and my desire to do more intentional gift-giving was inspired by Amy Crook, who wrote this piece on thoughtful gift-giving.

Christmas Drama (Abridged Version)

Our family’s traditions around Christmas and New Year’s Day include two annual family parties before Christmas and a separate gathering with friends around New Year’s Day.  In between all of those festive commitments, we usually spend time with several other friends and relatives, but this year was completely thrown off due to a very unwelcome visitor: stomach flu.

Our bedroom looked like triage with sheets spread out across the floor in case of *accidents* (of which there were many) and to allow our sons to sleep wherever they felt most comfortable, which was primarily on the floor.  We quarantined ourselves from December 19th through Christmas day and were finally all recovered enough to celebrate the New Year with close family and friends.  But we didn’t get to see everyone that we wanted to see, including my sister and her family who returned to the mainland just after Christmas.

So, for me, this Christmas was bittersweet.  For my boys, they got to enjoy opening presents in front of the half-decorated Christmas tree so no big deal.  And when we look back at the pictures, we MAY not remember the frustration,  disappointment and sheer EXHAUSTION of it all.

On New Year’s Day we went to the Otera for the traditional New Year’s Day service.  We enjoyed my MIL’s konbu maki, which is her signature New Year’s Day dish instead of the traditional Japanese soup with mochi.  Every year she makes enough to share with family and friends.  And friends reciprocate with home-made mochi and other yummy foods.

The description of konbu maki says “Seaweed Wrapped Pork Rolls” which doesn’t aptly convey yumminess, but my MIL’s version really is so good.  There’s a recipe here that seems to have all the ingredients she uses, although I’m fairly certain my MIL leaves out the MSG and uses chicken broth.

This is one of those dishes to add to the list (along with Oxtail Stew and Pig’s Feet Soup) of things I need to learn how to make from the people I know who make them (my MIL and my mom).  There are very few restaurants (that I know of) that make a decent version of their dishes.

BTW, this ozoni looks so tasty!  Donna posted her MIL’s recipe here.  My husband says the mizuna is an acquired taste, but since I’ve never had it, I’d certainly try it, if given the opportunity.  Maybe I should plan to make some next year, if I can keep the holidays drama-free!

Happy New Year of the Tiger

Note: The Year of the Tiger actually begins on February 14th; so *technically* we’re still in Year of the Ox and I’m early with my post title.  There’s more 2010 Year of the Tiger info here.

New Year’s Day is coming to a close here in Hawaii and with that in mind, I am going to be making changes to this neglected blog.  I’m using a new theme, Atahualpa, which I understand is very customizable.  (And it’s free.)  I’m going to try it out so please bear with me…I’m expecting some overall wonkiness as I tackle this latest learning curve.

Best wishes to you in 2010!  May you and your family be HEALTHY.  It’s really the best gift of all.

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